If I've learned anything as a mother in the past 16 months, it's the importance of taking time away from being a mother. We all need time to ourselves. Time to renew and refresh...physically, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally. I know it is hard, but carving out time for yourself is essential. Maybe you take yourself to a movie or out to dinner. If money is tight, you can brew a cup of coffee at home, grab a book, and find a quiet place to read. If the weather cooperates, you could take a walk around the neighborhood by yourself. Whatever you decide to do, make sure it is something you enjoy (not feel obligated to do). The other day I mowed the yard just to have some decompression time. Ideal? Probably not. But it gave me a good hour for my mind to wander and rest. When you take time to renew yourself, you become a better wife and mother. I can tell when it's time for "me" because I get edgy, short tempered, and basically a bear to be around. When this happens, schedule your time...just as you would a dentist appt. Short of a true emergency, make this time non-negotiable (meaning you don't give it up to do something motherly...I'm guilty of this). Whether you can carve out 15 minutes or 5 hours, you will find yourself renewed and ready to be with your family again. So schedule some "me time" today...and don't feel guilty. Even Jesus took time by himself! Make "me time" your goal this week!
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AuthorMy name is Jennifer Gardner. I'm married to an amazing man and we have a spunky, yet loving son. This is my life's journey. Archives
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